Monday, April 26, 2010

Nuchal Scan Results 13w2d

Well, the title of my blog is completely suitable now, we are really Wishing4One now.

One of our superbabies stopped growing around 10 weeks...

Our Superbaby that  IS growing looks and measures great! All measurements are at normal ranges of what they should be and Dr. K was very pleased with what we saw. We also decided to forego the blood tests for now as scan looks promising.

We are both ok, Super S and I. There is a reason, I believe that this baby did not continue to grow. God is the best of Planners and that belief eases my pain a little.

Now we just hope, wish and pray that our little Superbaby will hang in there and continue to grow and be a good little guy or girl.

Dr. K suggested initially we come back back at a later date for the next ultrasound, but I told him I could did not want to wait that long, so being the very cool doctor and friend he is, we will see him again on May 12th.

One thing I was surprised about, he said the baby that stopped growing, we do not have to do anything about it. Like we do not have to remove, nor will it miscarry. It will get pushed against uterine wall, and be absorbed or something like that. He said it may pass as something light when our other baby is delivered. Like a small, white sac may be seen on top of the delivered baby's placenta.

Anyway I want to write more, but am so drained. I am going to bed now and don't worry I am ok, really. So sad, but ok, thank God.




57 comments:

  1. I'm very sorry to read about one of the babies but am very glad that the other is doing so well.

    Thinking of you.

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  2. Oh, I'm so very sorry for your loss. I pray God wraps His arms around you at this time and you feel His presence more than ever before.

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  3. Oh Wishy, sending you love and prayers.

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  4. Aw, what a mix of emotions for you. I'm so happy to hear that one of your babies is right on track and doing well. I am so, so sorry to hear that your other one has not made it. They are both your precious little babies and losing one must be so hard. I wish nothing but the best for you, your husband and your survivng little one. Take care of yourself!

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  5. I´m so sorry for your loss of one of your babies. I don´t know whether this is comforting, but I have been reading a blog where one of the twins died and the other was born healthy.
    http://infertilityrocks.wordpress.com/

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  6. It was such a surprise to read this - I am glad you are hanging in there. It is sad and it's also really common unfortunately. I really hope that the little survivor is doing well and continues to grow and do great. Thinking of you all:)

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  7. Oh no. I'm so sorry about your baby. I really hope your other super baby will continue to grow and do great.

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  8. Oh sweetie...I know you are happy about the one that is still growing but I can feel your pain for the one you lost.

    Lots of {{{hugs}}} and love coming to you.

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  9. Oh, my sweet friend! Jill said it right when she called the emotions a 'mixed bag' right now. I am so, so, so sorry that one of those precious superbabies is lost. At the same time, I couldn't be happier that your other baby is thriving. I hope that you'll find the time to grieve, rejoice and reflect...and that you and Super S take good care of yourselves, too.

    As always, you're in my heart and in my prayers...even more so today. I hope you'll lean on us as you need to. Lots of love and hugs from TN. xoxoxoxo

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  10. So sorry to hear about your baby. Sending you big warm hugs. But so so happy the other one is doing great. Keep the faith. All will be well xx

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  11. Oh Wishy, I'm so sorry.

    Be good and healthy, Superbaby!

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  12. So sorry about the baby, glad to hear that you & the other baby are doing okay. Praying everything goes smoothly for you from here on out!

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  13. So sorry to hear about the baby... I am glad that you and Superbaby are well!

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  14. I am so sorry to hear about your loss -- but am so glad to hear that you & your little one are doing well!! It sounds like you have a great dr and that is nice he is allowing you to come back in a little over 2 weeks.

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  15. Oh, I am so sorry for the loss of one of your twins. Sending you big hugs from CA.

    I am so glad that Superbaby is doing well.

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  16. I'm so sorry that one of the babies is gone. I know how excited you've been for both of them. I know it will be hard, because you'll be so happy and so sad for a while. I hope your faith comforts you, and I will be praying for you, SuperS, and both Superbabies.

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  17. Oh honey...I'm so sorry about the one, and happy about the other. It's such a horrible mixed bag of emotion. I'm sorry you're going through it. Thinking of you and your other little fighter.

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  18. I am so upset to hear this, Wishy. So sad. All my love to you and Super S as you absorb this news and deal with the loss of your baby. I don't understand this at all.

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  19. I am so, so sorry to read this news...I am sending you loads of hugs, and all sorts of positive thoughts for you and your little one.

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  20. :( so sorry. What a blow, I'm sure that was hard to process at the doctor's office. Lots of hugs.

    On the lighter side, I'm so happy for your little one for having great numbers and growth. Keep going, little baby! I want to meet you!!

    more hugs!

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  21. Sorry to hear about your loss, but I am so happy that one of them is healthy and growing. *hugs* I'm amazed at your strong faith and great attitude about the situation.

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  22. Oh hon... I am so very sorry! Sending many prayers your way. Many many ((hugs)) too.

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  23. Again Wishy, I'm so very sorry for your loss. Lots of well wishes to your remaining Super baby!

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  24. Oh sweetie, I don't know what to say...I know you sound ok with this and of course I'm here with you, but it must have been a shock nonetheless. Take time and process the news, I'm sure superbaby will keep thriving and it'll all go well. Much much love and you are truly in my thoughts. Fran

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  25. I am so sorry for your loss, my sweet. Though, it is great news that SuperBaby is going well.

    Take your time in dealing with what has happened - my thoughts are with you.

    All the best.

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  26. oh, wishing. i'm so sorry. sending lots of love to you and Super and Superbaby.

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  27. I am so sorry... such bittersweet news. You Super S and Superbaby are in my thoughts today... Hugs

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  28. Ahh I am sad to hear this, but glad you are doing ok, as is Super S and the baby. Hang in there hun, you are in my thoughts.

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  29. So sorry to hear this news. You're attitude is so positive. I am thinking about you.

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  30. sorry for the loss of one of your twins. Glad your other baby is doing well.

    thinking of you.

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  31. Oh hun, so very sorry to hear this. I'm glad you're okay, and I'm praying your other baby continues to stay healthy and grow. Thinking of you!!

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  32. Hmph. I don't know what to say. I am thrilled one little dude (I think it is a boy) is growing well. Keep on keepin' on, little one! But I am sad that the other is no more. I know you are likely processing all this, but it is okay to be sad and mourn for a while over this loss. I am happy the doc allowed you to push the ultrasound up. Good for you.

    Hang in there, sweetums. I am still so happy for you!

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  33. Oh I'm so sorry to read about your loss. Sending you lots of love.

    xoxo

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  34. I am so sorry about the baby that you lost. Happy to hear Superbaby is doing well, but sad about the other one.
    ~hugs~

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  35. so sorry for your lost. hugs

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  36. You're right. God is the best of planners, but it is still rough and such a disappointment. I'm very sorry for the loss of your baby and hope you are surrounded by the peace that passes understanding.

    Still, so glad that your other baby is doing so well. Hang in there.

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  37. Peace filled thoughts to you my friend... I wish we lived closer - or on the same continent :-). I would make you some homemade scones and tea.

    You are in my thoughts and try to focus on the positive my beautiful friend.

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  38. OMG! I'm so very sorry! That is so very sad. Thank GOD you still have the one. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Stay rested.

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  39. Hugs. You are being pulled in two opposite directions, right now.

    I'm glad your doc is getting you in earlier than planned.

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  40. I'm so sorry to hear about your one baby, and you're so right, God has a bigger plan for us. Keep faith and pray. Good luck

    ~Stopping by for ICLW #126

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  41. I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.

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  42. I am SO sorry for your loss honey. I pray that the superbaby growing inside you goes from strength to strength.

    Thinking of you.

    xxx

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  43. oh sweetheart I am so very sorry to read this. I'm sending loads of healing thoughts your way and a whole bunch of positivity that superbaby is going to continue to grow right on schedule for you.

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  44. I'm so sorry about your loss. Glad you are doing okay, and hoping beyond all hope that superbaby stays healthy!!

    ICLW

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  45. I am so sorry for your loss. The same thing happened to me...pregnant with twin blessings after IVF and we found out we lost one at 8 1/2 weeks. It's a hard thing to describe; I feel both deeply saddened for one baby and so very grateful for the other. I am now 16 weeks along and the other one seems to be doing just wonderfully. Praise God!

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  46. I'm sorry to hear that. I had that happen to me, although I was earlier in my pregnancy. I was worried the entire rest of the pregnancy but my daughter was born full term, perfectly healthy (She's 2 now). I wish you the best of luck!

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  47. Oh, I'm so very sorry for the loss of your little one. And of course so happy to hear that your Super Baby is thriving. It's important to honor your sadness and your joy, all mixed up as they may be. Please know that I'm thinking of you and sending many hugs.

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  48. oh no! i'm just checking my blogs now and i find out about your loss. i'm so, so very sorry. i can't imagine how difficult this must be for you. (HUGE HUGS)

    i'm so happy to hear that superbaby is doing very well and i can't wait to hear about your u/s on the 12th. this is your year of the baby so i have no doubt that superbaby will continue to grow and prosper and be in your arms in about six short months. xo.

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  49. Sorry to hear but thankful that you still have ONE baby growing well.

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  50. I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your little one. I'm still catching up on reading blogs, so this is pretty late. I'm thinking of you and praying that Superbaby will SUPER healthy!

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  51. Wishy, I am so very sorry to read this! So very sorry for the loss of one of your precious twins. Sending healing thoughts for you and Super K, and strong healthy growing vibes for Superbaby.

    xo
    A

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  52. Such bittersweet news, W41. Glad to hear that SuperBaby is doing well.

    My thoughts are with you on the loss of the other SuperBaby. Hugs to you.

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  53. I am so very sorry for your loss. That just bites. But I am thrilled that your other Superbaby is doing well. Wonderful news in the midst of some sad news.

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  54. Sending you so and Super S so much love and peace.
    *HUGS*

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  55. I'm so sorry for your loss.

    ((HUGS))

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  56. Just catching up with some blog reading and was so sad to read this :( I'm sorry I didn't read and post sooner. Sending *hugs* and lots of happiness that your one superbaby is doing well!

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